Facing Abortion: How To Help

Facing some one who is considering an abortion can be difficult and daunting experience. Especially if it is a very close friend or a family member. To understand better what is happening to that woman will help you to chose the right approach in dealing with her decision. Unfortunately most of us would use a "baby" talk right from the start, hoping that she will hear the word "baby" and reconsider the abortion. But the truth is that she may not be able to hear you and actually this kind of approach can be more damaging than helping.

This inability to hear you is not her fault and generally has to do with what is happening to her and her body on a biochemical level. Often facing an abortion, woman finds herself under much pressure and stress. This causes her adrenaline levels to rise and counteracts the effects of oxytocin a hormone that is on the rise during pregnancy and is at it's peak during the labor and delivery. This hormone is also responsible for putting us in a "caring" state of mind, and if you want to talk "babies" to your friend or a family member, when she is in a "caring" state of mind would be the most appropriate time to do so.

In order to help her, you should be willing to do all that you possibly can to eliminate the stress and an pressures she is under. Being argumentative will only add to pressure and stress. Sometimes we may think that if we present our argument in a loving manner, she some how will be able to hear us. But the truth is that we are taking a big chance perusing this road.

So what can you do? Some times it is not so easy to eliminate stress and pressure from a particular situation, but there are simple ways that may help you to do just that. If you can afford, take your friend on a "girls day out" to a spa saloon. Good message and pampering will help to lover the adrenaline levels and may contribute to putting your friends mind into a "caring" state. Do not force the abortion topic or a "baby talk" on her unnecessarily, if she brings up the topic do not shy from it, but also do not force her into taking about it if she is not willing.

Another step you can consider is to take her out (physically) of the stressful situation. If you can offer her a place to stay where she can find herself in a more relaxing atmosphere, this also may help.

Last but not least, ask her about her diet. When under stress, we completely abandon good diet habits and stick to a junk food. This can contribute to sudden fluctuation of sugar level in our blood, and also takes us on a ride when from be highly energized we suddenly may become tired and depressed. Consider to offer your friend a had when it comes to her diet. She may not be feeling like cooking herself and sometime even reheating an already prepared meal can seam to her like an impossible task. It would be a good idea to provide her with snacks that would be readily available and would not require much time to prepare. Things like cold cuts or already made sandwich could be the best. Make sure that she receives plenty of protein and even some fat with her food. This will help her to level the sugar level in her blood and diminish times when she feels depressed and out of energy.

While on either side of abortion issue we can make arguments, no amount of "you are making the right choice" will help a woman to feel better about her decision. Respectfully no amount of "it's your baby" will help a woman to change her decision. Only tender loving care can provide her with a choice free of any kind of pressure.

Eugenia Brown owns http://www.healing-after-abortion.com where she shares her journey of healing after abortion. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Eugenia_Brown

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